Here's an excerpt from my upcoming book 89 Seconds to Sales Success. Enjoy!

Ever been in a conversation and notice that the person you’re speaking with isn’t looking at you? My wife has learned not to seat herself in a sports bar where I can see a television beyond her shoulder. I’ve tried to convince her that I can carry on a deep, meaningful conversation with her while simultaneously focusing on a baseball game. She’s not buying that line and frankly, I can’t sell it either.

We’ve all been the victim of this visual multi-tasking, and we’ve all been perpetrators as well. Giving a person your undivided attention is one of the few precious gifts left to give these days. When you’re focused on one individual and their needs, you’re telling them that you care sincerely about what they have to say, and you’re demonstrating respect. Think of a time when you weren’t focused solely on the person you were interacting with. Where were your eyes? What was drawing your mind away from the present? How did that feel and appear to the person you were speaking with? How would you have felt in their shoes?

Make a commitment in each interaction you have to stay in the moment and focus intently on the other person. Listen with your eyes, ears and body language.

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